Monday, February 14, 2011
Some Words to Live By
* Work hard - there is no substitute for it. It's the only way.
* Don't expect handouts - you want something, work for it.
* Be accountable - don't blame others - YOU are responsible for your life - no one else is.
* Your reputation is everything - work hard, tell the truth, do what you say you're going to do, don't talk bad about people
* Put others before yourself - Life is more fulfilling when you put others first.
* Constantly look for ways to help others - open the door, carry their bags, say a nice word
* Be quick with compliments - there isn't enough kindness in the world today.
* Smile A LOT - people like being around others that are happy
* It's not what you know but who you know - Network - get out & meet people - shake hands, smile & get to know someone new - all of my jobs came through networks of people
* God is important - there is an end to this life - what do you believe happens next? Are you prepared for the next stage?
* Have a positive attitude - if you look for negative you will find it - I prefer to look for positive - I think it's a healthier way to live.
* Love - treat those that you love very special. why would we treat those that love us any other way?
* Life every day like it's your last - that way when the end is here, you will have no regrets.
Friday, October 15, 2010
Lyrical Insight
* I keep pushin...keep pushin...keep pushin on..... REO Speedwagon (Keep Pushin)
* Cuz if you play the game, you gotta play to win..... Bryan Adams (Only the Strong Survive)
* Now your climbing to the top of the company ladder, hope it doesn't take to long, can't you see there will come a day it won't matter, come a day when you'll be gone....All I want is to have my piece of mind.... Boston (Piece of Mind)
* And I know it aches and your heart it breaks you can only take so much...walk on....leave it behind...you've got to leave it behind..... U2 (Walk On)
* I feel that when I'm old...I'll look at you and know...the world was beautiful.... Jimmy Eat World (Polaris)
* Today is when your book begins...the rest is still unwritten... Natasha Bedingfield (Unwritten)
* Who do you need....who do you love....when you come undone.... Duran Duran (Come Undone)
* Turn up the radio....I need the music....give me some more.... Autograph (Turn Up the Radio)
* Those were good times.....damn good times... David Lee Roth (Damn Good)
* This is your life....are you who you want to be.... Switchfoot (This is Your Life)
* Hold on loosely but don't let go....if you cling too tightly...you're gonna lose control.... 38 Special (Hold On Loosely)
* But I won't cry for yesterday...there's an ordinary world....somehow I have to find.... Duran Duran (Ordinary World)
* It's a Beautiful Day... U2 (Beautiful Day)
* Right Now.... Van Halen (Right Now)
* I'm Forever Yours....Faithfully Journey (Faithfully)
* Don't Stop Believing... Journey (Don't Stop Believing)
* One life but we're not the same....we get to carry each other....carry each other ..... U2 (One)
* If I turn into another...dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me.... Incubus (Dig)
* If you ask me what I want this year....I'll try to make this kind of clear...just a chance that maybe we'll find better days... Goo Goo Dolls (Better Days)
* Breathe out....so I can breathe you in... Foo Fighters (Everlong)
* Here's to the night we felt alive....He's to goodbye tomorrow's gonna come too soon... Eve 6 (Here's to the Night)
* Life is just a fantasy....can you live the fantasy life Aldo Nova (Fantasy Life)
* You live you learn....You love you learn....You cry you learn.....You lose you learn....You bleed you learn....You scream you learn.... Alanis Morrissette (You Learn)
Monday, June 28, 2010
So You Think You Can Hit a Wiffle Ball?
Then I saw this video. Check out this link. My curveball was nothing like this.
http://www.mentalfloss.com/blogs/archives/54677
Friday, June 11, 2010
USA....USA....USA
USA....USA....USA.
Monday, April 19, 2010
55 Rules of Business
Little different slant this time - all business....(except GO CAVS!)
I recently read the book "the Rules of Business" by the editors & writers of Fast Company. This book was outstanding. It outlined 55 rules for performance. I wanted to share them with you. I think this list is awesome. The book has many quotes that support all of the statements. It's a quick read (prob 2-3 hours). Well worth it.
Here they are:
The Rules of Business by Fast Company’s Editors & Writers
Change
1) Adapt or die.
2) Innovation is difficult & often painful. But there is no alternative.
3) When should you change? When things are going perfectly.
4) Regardless of how realistic you think you are being, the change process will take 3 times as long as you like.
Communication
5) Employees need to know – in painstaking detail – what you want to do & why. They need to hear it again & again. Don’t forget: it’s impossible for them to hear it too often.
6) If you can’t communicate, you can’t lead.
7) If you can’t get your message across quickly, you aren’t going to get it across at all.
Creativity & Innovation
8) Nothing is more overrated than a new idea. Ideas by themselves are worthless. It’s what you do with them that matters.
9) If your cool new product or service doesn’t generate enough money to cover costs & make a profit, it isn’t innovation, it’s art.
10) Make innovation pay its way. Business units should have to fund the research they want, instead of receiving a handout from corporate. Having to pay for it is a sure way to guarantee that the research is going to be focused.
Customer Service
11) Ask customers what they want, and give it to them.
Decision Making
12) No is the 2nd best answer you can get to any question you ask.
13) Not deciding is a decision. That’s the problem with procrastinating.
14) It is extremely hard to make a list of all the things you haven’t thought of. That explains why it is important to open up the decision-making process to as many people as possible.
Design
15) Design will be the next place companies battle for competitive advantage.
16) If consumers can’t easily use your design, they won’t buy your product.
Execute
17) If you don’t execute, you won’t accomplish a thing.
18) Hold people accountable. Reward those who execute. Coach those who don’t. And if they still don’t get it, fire them. You aren’t helping them, or the organization, by having them stick around.
Hiring & Developing & Retaining Great Employees
19) No matter how overwhelmed you are with work, it is always better to hire no one than to hire the wrong person.
20) A players hire A players, B players hire C players & C players hire losers.
21) If you lose great people, you lose success.
Technology is Not a Strategy
22) Technology is not the answer. It can enable & support the corporate vision, but by itself, technology will not give you a competitive advantage.
23) Operational silos are bad everywhere. But they are especially crippling when it comes to IT, with is vital to almost every organization’s success.
Knowledge
24) Don’t have your people waste time figuring out what someone else in the company has already discovered. Create & maintain an efficient knowledge management system to share experiences companywide.
25) Data are a series of facts. Information is a lot of data about a topic combined with some context. Ideally companies want to manage information in such a way that it yields knowledge: information that has been processed in such a way that it can be used for competitive advantage.
Leadership
26) The principles governing how you lead must remain absolutely constant. How you express them must vary every single time, depending on your audience. You need to make sure they understand what you are trying to do…what their role is.
27) Leaders lead.
28) Leadership is the art of getting people to do what you want because they want to.
29) Leaders need to say two things: “this is where we are going,” and “this is why we need you to help us get there.”
Life & Career
30) Achieving balance in your life is a time-management problem & needs to be treated as such. What that means is you figure out what you absolutely must accomplish in your personal & professional lives, & let everything else slide.
31) You can do anything, but not everything.
32) Take breaks. Not only will it make you more productive, if you go out & see the world you are bound to spot opportunities.
Managing
33) Great managers are just as important as great leaders.
34) The closer top management is to the customer, the more successful an organization is likely to be.
35) Your employees are never going to know how they are doing-and how they can do better- unless you tell them.
Marketing
36) Nothing happens in business until the customer says yes.
37) If customers won’t buy your product or service, you are not giving them what they want or need. It’s your fault, not theirs.
38) Every communication with a customer must answer the 2 questions that they always have (even if they don’t always express them to you): “what do you have and why should I care?”
39) 3 Rules of Advertising: don’t insult us, tell the truth, and have a sense of humor.
Organization & Corporate Culture
40) We get the kind of organization we deserve.
41) If you have a sr. VP of administration, something is wrong. You shouldn’t need a bureaucracy to manage the bureaucracy. In fact, you shouldn’t have a bureaucracy at all.
42) Ultimately, everything is personal.
Teamwork & Partnerships
43) The whole is greater than the sum of its parts. If not, you have a serious management challenge on your hands.
44) In well-run companies, everyone is needed but no one is indispensable. In other words, teamwork is built in.
45) Just because everyone wears the same uniform does not mean they are a team.
Risk
46) No prudent risk, no fairly predictable rewards.
Social Responsibility, Trust & Ethics
47) You can’t be a little bit ethical. Either you are ethical or you are not. There is no in-between.
48) Everybody must understand & internalize the company’s core values. Doing so frees up time, because you don’t have to debate the organization’s core beliefs. Everyone knows what they are. It also frees resources. When people know what they are supposed to do, they need less supervision.
49) If it is not right, don’t do it; if it is not true, don’t say it.
Speed
50) In today’s economy, it’s the fast companies that trounce the slow.
51) Look to streamline your operation everywhere. The cumulative effect can be astonishing.
52) Just because you occasionally step on the accelerator doesn’t mean you can keep it floored indefinitely. Organizations can run flat out only for short periods.
Strategy & Growth
53) If you don’t know where you are going, any road will take you there. You need a clear strategy & a clear direction, one that everyone in the organization understands as well as you do. 54) Think!
Link Between Success & Failure
55) If you haven’t had one spectacular failure in your life, you haven’t tried hard enough.
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Htting a Baseball
1) Establish a rhythm - stay loose before the pitcher releases the ball
2) See the ball out of the pitcher's hand
3) get separation - the hands go back and the front foot comes down
4) stay square - keep the front shoulder close and let the hips lead the swing
5) transfer weight back to front
That's it. Sounds simple. Now I can be a great hitter. I'm going to make a trip to the batting cage soon & see if I can do better than just foul off a couple of 70 mph pitches.
The big leagues & millions of dollars are right around the corner.
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Total Eclipse of the Heart
* Hard to think of what INXS would have been like had Michael Hutchence not chosen to hang himself. Would they have been as big as U2? He was a big loss to music.
* You would think that after the Tiger issues & a few brush off-field issues already on his resume that Big Ben would be a little more careful. More off the field items are being exposed. This is a disappointment to all of the many Steelers fans that hold such reverance for Ben.
* March Madness is right around the corner. How many thought the Buckeyes would be mentioned in talk for a #1 seed? Wow! It's been an amazing turnaround since Turner has been healthy. Just think if the OSU football team was in this position. Columbus would be buzzing. Not many feel the same about hoops. Why?
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Confucius Say
* I was looking at the Big 10 teams in the bowl games. I think is the year the Big 10 is vindicated. I am going out on a limb & saying the Big 10 will be 6-1 in the bowls this year. The matchups:
The U vs. Wisconsin (U favored by 3.5 - I'm picking the Badgers)
Minnesota vs. Iowa State (UM favored by 2.5 - Gophers to win)
Northwestern vs. Auburn (UA favored by 7 - Auburn will win)
Penn State vs. LSU (PSU will drop the SEC)
Mich State vs. Texas Tech (Tech favored by 8, MSU in an upset)
OSU vs. Oregon (Oregon by 3.5, Buckeyes get the monkey off the back)
Iowa vs. Georgia Tech (Tech by 4, another upset)
You heard it hear, the Big 10 will be 6-1.
* Vazquez to the Yankees. Are you kidding me? The rich get richer. Vazquez only trails Randy Johnson in active pitchers with strikeouts....and he goes to a team with Sabathia, Pettite, and all of the other great players. This is ridiculous. This sport is not fair anymore. You have a bunch of poor boys playing all star teams.
* Look at the major league payrolls this past year:
The top 5: Yanks ($201 million - not a typo), Mets $149, Cubs $135, Red Sox $122 (yes the Yankees spent $80 million more than the Red Sox), Tigers $115
The bottom 5: Marlins $37 (yes the Yankess spent 5.5 times the Marlins), Padres $44, Pirates $60, As $62, Rays $63.
Ohio Teams: Indians $82, Reds $74
Just not right.
* The Big 10 hoops teams have started well. Look at Northwestern at 10-1. I expect the Big 10 to be a bloodbath this year with much balance. The champion may have 5 losses this year.
* I can't wait for the matchup of the year - Texas vs. Kansas in hoops. Both teams look strong.
* Tiger's arrogance gets me. How did he not think this would eventually come to light?
* Favre - please just play.
I ran across this great Confucius quote:
"To put the world right in order, we must first put the nation in order; to put the nation in order, we must first put the family in order; to put the family in order, we must first cultivate our personal life; we must first set our hearts right."
In summary - it starts with YOU! Not your neighbor, not your boss, not your kids, not your friends. If you want the world to be a better place...it starts with YOU!
MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL!
Monday, November 23, 2009
Get To vs. Got To
http://bluntrandomthoughts.blogspot.com/
* I recently attended an awesome session presented by a friend of mine (Dr. Gary Schwantz). His point was living life as a "Get to" vs. a "Got to". Think of how you use those different phrases. When you are excited to do something it might be common to say...."I get to watch the Buckeyes on Saturday". On the contrary, when you are going to do something that you aren't as passionate about, you might say...."I've got to go to work". His advice was to create a life of "get to".
* His point was summarized in 5 key bullets (hopefully you will find something in here that speaks to you):
1) Do it on purpose - deciding today is the day I notice. If we want to savor life, we have to notice it.
2) Notice the moment - Be in the moment.
3) Celebrate & have some fun - it creates a healthier you.
4) Be grateful - blessing are gifts, not entitlements.
5) Take Time - make time for those things that are important.
* Ohio State owns michigan - 6 straight, 7 out of the last 8. I can hardly remember the Cooper era. It wasn't that long ago the shoe was on the other foot....michigan owned Ohio State. As hard as it is for me to see michigan beating OSU next year, there were a lot of positive signs for the wolverines. That offense moved the ball.....but turnovers doomed them. Just think if they didn't turn the ball over....we might have had to throw a pass or 2 in the second half.
* Bring on the Ducks. I'm convinced we are going to play Oregon in the Grand-daddy of the all...the Rose Bowl. They have looked good everytime that I have seen them. Fast, shifty & they run the spread. It will be a great test for the Buckeyes. Of course the Bucks will be dogs.
* As funny as this sounds - I think the Buckeyes are in the exact same position they would have been had they won all of their games. Just think, there is absolutely no way the voters would have put OSU in the title game. With all of the other undefeated teams, OSU would have been #3 at best. Given that, they would have went to the Rose Bowl. Interesting but most likely true. The Purdue loss & the USC loss meant nothing to the bowl picture.
* Hard to believe the next OSU football game will be January 1st....such a long time. My how time flies. Now it's time to enjoy some OSU hoops. Hopefully they can give us something to cheer for.
* Remember, no matter how bad your fantasy football team is doing, for most leagues it only matters how you do in weeks 14, 15 & 16. You can be 9-2 right now, get the #1 seed in the playoffs & get knocked out by the lowest seed just because they have some no name bust out in week #14. Don't get cocky now. Just make the playoffs.
* There's something wrong with Lady GaGa. Every performance I have seen her do is disturbing. She can't be all there.
* Thanksgiving is a great time of the year. Challenge for you....at the family dinner table have everyone go around & say 1 or 2 things they are thankful for. You may be surprised how cool this turns out.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
It's michigan Week
* This game will be closer than expected. Yes, michigan's defense is porous (full of holes). But we play Tressel ball in Columbus. Senator Tressel has been known to pull out a trick or two against the team up north. But, when the smoke clears, he still plays it close to his sweater vest. I expect a 20-13 win.
* This game has much more excitement when michigan is good. Does it bother me that michigan is bad.....nope. Penn State is becoming a pretty good rival.
* Why in the heck would a team like the Bengals be considering signing Larry Johnson? It seems the Bengals are just putting their problems behind them & now they are inviting another in? Baffles me.
* I had a pretty strong feeling the Allen Iverson signing would go bad for Memphis. It did. He's not a strong team player unless he's starting & taking the majority of a team's shots. If he's not...he's not a good option for a team....especially a young team like the Grizzlies.
* The new Death Cab for Cutie single "Meet Me on the Equinox" sounds just like a RUSH song. Eerie.
* Brady Quinn was 13-31 last night. That's 42% if you're counting. Not good for an NFL QB. The 2 picks while not directly his fault because they went off receiver's hands, were not great passes - both were off target (behind & high).
* Hang in the Brown's fans, Charlie Weis will be available soon. They've tried all of the other Belichick disciples (Crennel, Mangini & even Belichick himself). Weis has got to be next.
* We are going to see how good the OSU basketball team is very soon. On Thursday they tip-off against the National Champion North Carolina Tar Heels. I like the Buckeye team this year. They are long and athletic. David Lighty's return will be a big boost.
* Speaking of the Buckeyes - just think if they didn't have all of the big guns pull the one & done. This year's team would have Oden, Conley, Cook, Koufas & Mullens in the mix. One can dream.
* The pro careers have really worked for Koufas & Mullens. Last I saw Mullens was in street clothes. Not exactly what he was hoping for I'm sure. But, if you can't play for OSU (which he didn't very well), how are you going to play in the NBA? Don't understand the logic sometimes. Who is helping these kids?
* Remind me why the SEC is such a great football conference again. I'm looking at the Top 25 & there are exactly 3 SEC teams in it. The Mountain West conference has 3 teams in the Top 25. In fact, there are 3 other conferences with 4 or more (Pac 10 - 5, Big 10 - 4, ACC - 4). The SEC is very top heavy. The PAC 10 looks like the best conference this year.
* It's hoop season again - the mighty Otterbein College Cardinals women's team kicks off this Friday in Adrian, Michigan. I can't wait (I help coach there if you didn't know). I'm looking forward to the season. We have a lot of depth this year. We got tougher & deeper. I think it's gonna be a good thing. Time will tell.....
* Go Bucks....beat michigan....beat em bad.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Yanks & Other Thoughts
* I am not a fan of the Yankees. Never have been....never will. I'm totally against the idea of spending as much money as they do. The playing field is not level for all teams. If the Yankees want a player - they go buy him. Simple. Am I a little bitter because the best pitchers on the field were former Indians? - you bet I am.
* I'm waking up after watching the Yankees dominate again & swearing that I'm done with baseball.
* I do like Derek Jeter - I think he plays the game the right way. And he is actually someone that came through the Yankees farm system.
On to other topics:
* Why is it that when a defensive player grabs the facemask it's a 15 yard personal foul.....but when the offensive player stiff-arms & grabs the facemask & torques a guy's head, it's ok? Don't quite understand that one.
* Why is it that 99% of the time it's defensive pass interference? I'd say many times the offense is the one causing the problems....yet it's always the defense that's punished.
* Why is it acceptable to substitute at every position in football with the exception of quarterback? Derek Anderson is playing horrendous at QB & you can't give Brady Quinn a couple of series without it being a huge deal? Terrel Pryor is struggling at Purdue & you can't give a series to Joe Bauserman? Maybe TP would have settled down....maybe JB would have got hot & gave the Buckeyes a shot in the arm. Coaches are stubborn.
* Why are 4-way stop signs so difficult? I go through a few each & every day....I'm amazed at how much more time they take because no one is assertive enough to go.
* As Hollywood as the signing is....Shaq is not the answer in Cleveland. The Cavs are still too reliant on LeBron in the 4th quarter to take every shot. Shaq might be able to guard a couple guys a little better than Z....but I honestly don't see him making much difference offensively. The Celtics (if they stay healthy....and that's a big if given that most of their team is pretty old by NBA standards) are the team to beat in the East. Adding Rasheed Wallace was the best most they could have made. Now they are big & can substitute for Garnett without loosing a beat.
* As good as I feel about the Vikings going in to the bye week....those Saints scare the heck out of me. That offense is as good as it gets. They are shredding defenses at will. Drew Brees is in rhythm.
* I lost a lot of respect for Urban Myer. The initial suspension of Spikes for the eye gouging incident was a complete joke. It wasn't until the media cried foul that they extended it to a game. Come-on Urban....be a man & stand for something.
* As hard as this is for me to say - I expect the Nittany Lions to beat the Buckeyes on Saturday. That Buckeye offense is still not functioning. The defense can't continue to carry all of the weight. Daryll Clark is pretty good. Kind of interesting that OSU's starting QB is from PA while PSU's starting QB is from O-H-I-O (Youngstown).
* LSU at Alabama is the only other good game this weekend. I expect Bama to roll tide at home.
* If you haven't joined Linked-In (www.linkedin.com) , I highly recommend it. As the old saying goes, "it's not what you know, but who you know" that counts. This website is a terrific method of increasing your network. It's sort of like Facebook....but with a professional slant. The website is a great resource to use when you need help or advice. Give it a try.
Monday, October 5, 2009
Hype?
* The roughing the passer penalties on the Ravens vs. the Pats was atrocious. Those 2 roughing penalites directly resulted in 14 points for the Pats. Not right.
* There is definitely no respect for the Buckeyes. They win handily and get jumped by Cincinnati. Until they win a big game, the Bucks will go no higher than 5 despite what they do the rest of the way. We will get another shot at redemption....expect the Rose Bowl rematch with USC.
* Imagine playing 162 games and it all comes down to 1 baseball game. Imagine being a player & thinking about all of the opportunities you were given throughout the year to win just 1 more game. Could you have focused a little more, ran a little harder, studied the scout chart, warmed up, etc... just a little more to make that one play to create one more win?
* Magical couple of days in Minnesota. The Twins play their last regular season game in the Metrodome, the Vikes are home in the Brett Favre battle, and the 1 game playoff tomorrow night. Fun town.
* The Saints have been ridiculous on offense. They have scored 144 points in 4 games. That is 20 more points than the 2nd best offense - get this....the 2nd highest scoring team is the Baltimore Ravens. Are you kidding me? I thought they only played defense in that city.
* The Broncos have only given up 26 points in 4 games. That's less than 7 per game. It helps that they played the Browns.
* Braylon Edwards is a solid citizen.
* The Indians only lost 97 games. Shrew...I thought they were gonna lose 100. Why fire the manager with only 6 games left? Silly.
* Below is a parenting tip that I recently read & liked.
Parenting Tips – The Importance of Respect and Guidance
This will bring us to our next parenting tip which is guidance. Kids will learn what they live. If we disrespect our kids, they will disrespect us and others. A common way we as parents disrespect our children is by letting them get away with being disrespectful to us.
For example, I say to my four year old son Johnny, “It’s time for bed, hurry off now.” His response is, “NO” and I laugh and say, “How cute.” I have disrespected him. In other words, I didn’t care about his need for guidance. If we walked into someone’s house and smoked after they have expressed their desire for not smoking in their house, I would be showing disrespect for the needs of the home owner. If we laugh at our kids when they are disrespectful to us (which they will be at times) or don’t correct them, we show disrespect for their needs. Children need guidance. But unless our guidance stems from love, it will come off as nothing but orders: “I am parent and you are a nothing child, do as I say!”
As a parent, we owe it to our kids to guide them into being respectful children. Otherwise they will grow to be disrespectful to all authority.
- Guidance takes time and love -- lots of time and lots of love. Never, ever give up.
Friday, September 25, 2009
For Best Results
* As discussed last week, the Indians are gaining ground on hitting the 100 loss number. They have now lost 11 straight. There are 11 games to go & they must win 2. Embarrassing.
* The SI Cover Jinx is alive & well. In the College FB preview issue they highlighted a few teams that were going to make a run this year - Ole Miss, Oregon & Oregon St. - they all have lost.
* Now I'm concerned - Adrian Peterson was on the cover last week. That's not good for a Viking fan like myself.
* Baseball has about 11 games left. There are only 2 races worth mentioning:
- The Rockies are up 3.5 but have dropped their last 2. Meanwhile the Braves have won their last 3 & the Marlin have won their last 2.
- The Tigers are only up 3 on the Twins. But, Detroit was on the cover of SI this week. Oh No.......... Can Detroit handle more disappointment?
* The Russians are coming....it appears one of the richest dudes in the world is going to buy the Nets. The NBA is clearly becoming an international game isn't it? The Cavs have a Chinese owner.
* The NHL kicks off in 8 days. Excited about the Columbus Blue Jackets. Can they continue to improve? I really like the young talent - Nash, Mason, Brassard, Filatov. Just keep healthy....
* Not much in the way of big games for College FB this weekend. The biggest is Virginia Tech vs. Miami - but I really don't care about that one. The Big Ten does have some important conference games - but I don't think they really matter in the national picture anymore. There is no love out there for the Big Ten. People continue to be fascinated with the SEC.
* I ran into this blog on Networking. I liked it & wanted to share it:
Ten Top Tips to Grow Your Network
by KeithFerrazzi.com on August 11, 2009
1. Build it before you need it: The best networking isn’t networking at all. Your goal should be to build relationships. Sure, that takes more time than swapping business cards at some boozy event. But those connections – real, sustained friendships – are what’s going to make a real difference in your life and career.
2. Don’t Be a Networking Jerk: Does the thought of “working a room” make you feel dirty? So don’t. Approach people with the question, “How can I help you?” Leading with generosity will allow you to approach people without the usual nervous inhibitions that bubble up when we feel inauthentic.
3. Don’t Keep Score: Truly connecting with others is a constant process of giving and receiving—of asking for and offering help. You’ve got to be willing to be generous, and accept the generosity of others, without keeping tally. Think big-picture: The more people you help, the more help you’ll have and the more help you’ll have helping others.
4. Create Instant Intimacy: Who really wants to talk about the weather? Why not skip to the good stuff! Creating instant intimacy by talking to people right away about their passions. What is it that really makes them tick?
5. Be Audacious: Nothing will create more opportunity in your life than a willingness to step up and ask for what you need. If you’re not brave enough to get out there and meet the people who are essential to your career, you won’t. It’s that simple. Push beyond what you think is “allowed” and you’ll often find that people are eager to help.
6. Develop Conversational Currency: When meeting someone new, be prepared to have something to say. Keep up with current events. Cultivate some niche interest—a single, narrow specialty that you’re truly passionate about. That passion has power.
7. Learn to Listen: Strive to be interested as much as interesting – or more. People love to meet others who take genuine interest in their lives. It’s frighteningly rare! Ask questions and when they answer, listen! Show them you’re listening with body language and follow up questions.
8. Master Nonverbal Cues: First, smile – it makes you approachable. Uncross your arms, relax, and maintain eye contact. When your eye contact drops below 70 percent, you can come across as rude and disinterested.
9. Get to Know the Gatekeeper: You think an assistant isn’t important enough to be on your radar? Wrong! That assistant has tremendous power as your target’s right hand. Treat them well.
10. Create a Personal Advisory Board: Get other people invested in your success by calling upon them as trusted
Friday, September 18, 2009
Move On
* Speaking of Tressel & the punt is the most important play. Check out this link.... This coach does not believe in punting & onside kicks every time. http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/vault/article/magazine/MAG1160256/index.htm
* On to this weekend - I'm a Buckeye fan. To me that means my loyalty & passion will not change from week to week. I hope they smash my alma mater, Toledo (T-O-L-E-D-O, Toledo). I also hope the Rocket offense if very potent so OSU has to learn to put up some points.
* This is the weekend that Lane Kiffin learns to be a little more quiet. Florida will whack Tennessee. Don't expect Florida to take Tebow out until the clock hits 0:00.
* Texas plays Texas Tech this weekend. If you remember, Tech ruined the Longhorns chance to play for the National Championship. Expect Texas to get revenge in a big way. It will be a high scoring Texas win.
* It looks like College football will be the Big 3 this year - Florida, Texas & USC. I hope USC is good enough to run the table & not trip over a lesser opponent. I do think the Pac 10 is much improved. Cal is pretty good. I want USC to dominate that conference.
* Got a chance to see the Vikings & Browns live last Sunday. Couple of observations.
1) The stadium was not full. How does an opening day at Cleveland stadium against a team with so much star power (AP & Favre in particular), not sell out?
2) It was an awesomely beautiful day.
3) I love Browns fans - I really do. They have incredible passion & like me are fans of a team that has not won a Super Bowl.
4) Pro football players are incredible athletes. The speed, size & hitting on the field. How do more not get permanently injured from this sport?
5) Adrian Peterson is not human. I'm watching this guy warm up before the game - there is no one on either sideline that closely resembles him. The size, power & speed of him - whoa! He runs like a receiver & looks like a linebacker. No one like him. His fourth quarter run.....speechless. That run will be shown in the highlights for years to come. If he stays healthy, he will be mentioned in the same breath as Payton.
6) As much as I want to believe it because he's a Columbus kid & I think a good guy, Brady Quinn is not the answer in Cleveland.
* I hope the season hurries & ends & puts the Indians out of their misery. 1-9 in their last 10. Only 16 more games. They stand at 85 losses. Can they avoid loosing 100?
* One more thought from the Browns game - the camera panned to Lebron in the stadium. The ovation & roar for that guy was incredible. He owns the city of Cleveland.
* I know this was made re-popular while USC was in town, but I don't think there is a better was to define being a friend than the song "Lean On Me". I'm not sure there are any lyrics written that are better than these:
If there is a load you have to bear
That you can't carry
I'm right up the road
I'll share your load
If you just call me
So just call on me brother, when you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on
I just might have a problem that you'd understand
We all need somebody to lean on
Lean on me when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend
I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long
Till I'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on
Friday, September 11, 2009
Go Buckeyes (& michigan)
* Many people forget it took a last minute comeback by Texas to beat OSU last year in the bowl game. I consistently hear & read that the Buckeyes have been embarrassed in the big games. Definitely true in the Florida, LSU & USC game. Not true otherwise. Many argued Texas should have played Florida in the National Championship game last year. OSU took them to the wire.
* I know - a loss is a loss. Once again, until the Bucks win a big national spotlight game, they will not be respected in the media. I'm sure all of the Big Ten will be rooting hard for the Buckeyes.
* This weekend is the only time that I become a michigan fan. I'm not an Irish fan.
* The NFL is here. Not a bad game last night. That was some serious smash mouth football. Sometimes I wonder how adults can survive that much punishment to the body. There was some hitting last night. Seems the Steelers are always involved in punishing games. There aren't too many teams that hit consistently like them - the Ravens & Titans come to mind.
* Roger Federer is the man. Got a chance to see him live a couple of weeks ago - if you can at all respect tennis (I happen to like it a lot), there is no other player like him. He looks so effortless yet his shot placement & lack of errors are amazing. Surprise - he's once again in the semis at the US Open. He will win another.
* The Rockies continue to push the Dodgers in the NL West. They have won 7 in a row. Since firing their manager in the first part of the season, they have went from 10 games under 500 to 21 games over 500. They are a lock for the NL wild card. But done sell them short, they are closing on the Dodgers quick - and they close the season with the Dodgers.
* With about 20 games to go, it looks like the MLB playoffs are close to being set. In the NL - Philadelphia, St. Louis & LA with the Rockies. In the AL, it's NY, Detroit & LA with the BoSox & Texas fighting it out for the wildcard. That's it. I don't expect anyone to stop the Yanks this year.
* Interesting article in Sports Illustrated this week. I didn't know it, but the AL has dominated the NL. Interleague play has been consistently slanted to the AL (even the Royals & Orioles are successful). AL players that are traded or moved to NL teams find success (Smoltz & Giambi are the latest examples- if you're a GM in the NL, watch the AL waiver wire). NL players that move to the AL bomb (Kerry Wood among many). The AL has won the last 13 all star games. The only place where the NL has success - the World Series - they have won 4 of the last 8.
* With Sizemore out due to injury - does anyone know any of the current Indians?
* Here's a fantasy sleeper - our very own Beanie Wells - if he stays healthy, he will be a stud. The only other back they have is Hightower. The receivers are so good, they will get extra attention. Beanie will have a terrific year.
* Some tips on leadership (thanks to Dale Carnagie)
A leader's job often includes changing your people's attitudes & behavior. Some tips:
1) Being with praise & honest appreciation
2) Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
3) Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
4) Ask questions instead of giving direct orders
5) Let the other person save face.
6) Praise the slightest improvement & praise every improvement.
7) Give the other person a reputation to live up to.
8) Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
9) Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest. (what's in it for them).
* Go Bucks (& michigan) - enjoy the games.
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Football is Here....
* Hard to believe school is starting & football is right around the corner. Fantasy teams are being picked, everyone is optimistic (except for Raiders & Lions fans), and Buckeye fans have their usual high expectations.
* So many things to think about with the upcoming seasons. I think this season, unlike any other that I can remember, has so many quarterback stories.
- In the NFL you have Favre, Vick, Quinn vs Anderson, Cutler as a Bear, the return of Brady, is Romo better without Jessica, can Aaron Rodgers repeat on such a fantastic last year, can Carson Palmer find Ochocinco without TJ in the lineup, is there a soph slump on the horizon for Matt Ryan (or is he even better with Tony Gonzalez in the lineup), what will the Chiefs do without their very expensive Matt Cassel, does Hasselback improve with TJ Housh in the lineup, how bad will Mark Sanchez be and many more. Can't wait to kick it off.
- In the college world, the big 3 are back - Tebow, McCoy & Bradford. They will have amazing years. The heisman will be a 3 horse race simply because of the press these guys have received & the expected success of their teams.
- In the Big 10, we have Pryor, Juice and Daryll Clark - all 3 are quality QBs.
- Others to mention & watch - Todd Reesing (Kansas), Dan Lefevour (Western Mich), Jevan Snead (Ole Miss), Zac Robinson (Ok St), Russell Wilson (NC State).....oh my I get excited just thinking of the fun to be had.
* Is Eli Manning really worth more than his brother? Just imagine if David Tyree doesn't make the incredible helmet grab. Are we still talking about Eli as an elite QB? I don't think so. I think
he's an OK quarterback, but there are many that I would take before him.
* As a matter of fact, I would take Drew Brees over almost any other QB (maybe Brady & Peyton----maybe). The dude threw for over 5,000 yards last year. That offense is absolutely unstoppable (they also have a Westerville South player named Lance Moore). If only the D (led by OSU's own Will Smith) could pick it up a notch, that team is scary.
* Speaking of scary, the Vikings have 3 world class sprinters in their lineup - AP (All Day), Bernard Berrian & Percy Harvin - talk about excited. If #4 can be average, the purple team could be very good this year. It's honestly the most excited that I have been since they were upset by the Falcons in the NFC championship many years ago. Go Vikes.
* Time for predictions - NFC - I like the Giants, Vikings, Saints, Seahawks with the Bears & Eagles getting the wildcards. The Vikings (yes the Vikings) will be the last team standing from the NFC. Gonna be a fun year.
* AFC - I like the Colts, Pats, Steelers, Chargers with the Jaguars & Titans grabbing the wildcards. The Chargers will represent the AFC.
* Sadly I predict the Chargers will give the Vikings their 5th Super Bowl loss.
* Hockey kicks off on Oct 3 - expect the CBJs to be much improved this year. Need to get up in the top 4 of the conference. I expect this to be a good year - A healthy Brassard will be a horse.
* Baseball is finishing - don't see anyone stopping the Yankees & Dodgers - the deepest pockets in the majors.
* Surprise - Michigan's Rodriguez is cheating with his practices. It won't be long before that guy is run out of town. That's too conservative of a school to take too many more hits.
* Expect Lane Kiffin to get quiet after Florida smacks Tennessee on Sept 19th.
* Games of the week:
9/3: Oregon @ Boise State
9/5: Alabama @ Va Tech, Georgia @ Oklahoma State
9/12: USC @ OSU
10/3: LSU @ Georgia, USC @ Cal
10/10: Florida @ LSU, Alabama @ Ole Miss
10/17: Texas v Oklahoma, Va Tech @ Georgia Tech
10/31: USC & Oregon, Florida v Georgia
11/7: LSU @ Alabama, OSU @ Penn State
11/14: Utah @ TCU
11/21: OSU @ michigan (not the luster of the ole days but still very meaningful), Penn St @ Mich St.
12/3: Oregon State @ Oregon
Lots more thoughts to come.
Sunday, August 2, 2009
It's Been A While
* I'm very mixed about the Brett Favre situation. On one hand, I'm tired of it. It's been very frustrating going through his change of mind - especially since the team he is impacting is the Vikings (a team I'm pretty near & dear to). On the other hand, I can't help but feel #4 would have been a lot better than the other options the Vikes have at QB. They are quite possibly the most talented team in the NFL outside of QB. It's been over 30 years since they've been to a Super Bowl. Now, it's Sage Rosenthal that is my QB in Minnesota. Wow!
* It's very tough to be an Indian fan these days. They only have 4 guys left on the team that played in the playoffs just 2 years ago. You would think their farm system is very stocked now. I'm a skeptic - I'm not expecting these trades to ultimately pay-off for the Tribe in the next few years. How do you justify going to the Jake these days when you can go to the brand new Huntington Park in Columbus & watch the minor league Indians for $6?
* This has been the most boring sports season that I think I have gone through. The options right now - Baseball, Soccer, Nascar, Golf - none are very interesting to me. I continue to lose more & more interest in baseball. Not sure why. Maybe it's due to the ridiculous salaries. Maybe it's due to the Indians & Reds being terrible. Maybe it's due to me being a basketball & football fan primarily. I'm not sure. But I'm having a very rough time finding things to watch on tv.
* Played Mud Volleyball last weekend. If you haven't done it, I highly recommend it. You don't have to be a good volleyball player. The mud makes it difficult to move & jump - equalizing most of the players. It's hard not to have a great time splashing around in the mud. Lots of laughs, smiles & fun no matter how good you play.
* I finally bit the bullet & got a Facebook. I was very reluctant. I felt Facebook was more of a HS/College thing to do. But one day, my daughter set me up an account without me knowing. Next thing I know I have a ton of friend requests. These are people that I haven't seen or talked to in many months or years. Now I'm connected to so many different people that it's been fun. I don't do much on FB. But it has been fun re-connecting. I have another HS reunion next year & it's going to be a great tool to communicate getting it setup.
* College is expensive - I now have 2 in college. One of the things I've learned is SAVE, SAVE, SAVE while your kids are young.
* I recently had another birthday. One of the things that I've reflected on as I've continued to age is 2 simple statements:
1) Life is about relationships
2) Be comfortable being uncomfortable.
I'll explore some of my thoughtse on these statements in future posts.
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
The BlueJackets are In!!!!
· Do they have a chance against the mighty Detroit Red Wings? Absolutely. Do I think they’ll win the series? Absolutely not. But I do think it will be a fun time for Ohio hockey fans to enjoy being part of it. Expect a sell-out crowd with lots of energy at the games. Expect bars to finally tune all of the screens to the BlueJackets during the game time. It’s gonna be a blast.
· Imagine the satisfaction of Rick Nash – going through the unforgiving tough times and finally realizing the dream of playing for the Cup.
· I’m bummed Kenny Perry didn’t get it done on Sunday. He’s a good dude. Family man, great to the media and fans, humble guy. Deserved better than finishing with 2 bogeys and a dreadful playoff. He had a handful of close putts in his final round. Just one of them falls, he’s the champ. Instead he’s a choke.
· The Tribe start has been disappointing. The one concern going in has been starting pitching. That concern has reared its ugly head in the 1st 7 games. Hopefully they will be able to get it going soon. I’m a firm believer in momentum. Need to get some positive momentum going in these next few games.
· Good to see Pronk hitting again. Although he left many runners on base last night, he’s improved quite a bit over last year so far.
· The Cavs have clinched the best record in the NBA. Let me say that again – The Cavs have the best record in the NBA. Wow – that sounds good. Even during the Price, Daugherty, Nance years that didn’t happen. LeBron continues to impress. He’s simply unstoppable.
· Don’t think that the NBA home court doesn’t make a difference. When it comes to any game 7, they will be at Cleveland. That’s cool. Cleveland is 39-1 at home. The Lakers (lost only 5 at home) and the Celtics (6 losses at home) are also very tough at home. I sure wouldn’t want a game 7 at their place.
· I like Joe Dumars but why would he trade Chauncey Billups to the Denver Nuggets for Allen (Practice?) Iverson? Billups has been just what Denver needs. They have the 2nd best record in the West. Iverson can’t understand why he isn’t starting. Anybody recognize a theme with AI? He’s on a 76er team that doesn’t win, an Olympic team that doesn’t win & the Nuggets & Pistons were both better when he wasn’t with the team. Maybe he needs to practice.
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